HOW TO SAVE A MARRIAGE
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PEOPLE MARRY WHEN THEY FALL IN LOVE
"They lived happily ever after", this is the common ending of fairy tales and subconsciously in the minds of all those who plunged into the tender trap of marriage. Marriage is neither a bowl of jelly nor a path lined with roses, but it can be compared to a rough river that you need all your wits to navigate until you are smoothly sailing again.
WHAT ARE THE SYMPTOMS OR SIGNS OF IMPENDING MARITAL DISASTER?
Therefore, your spouse has to hug you twice before they leave for work, once when they come home for dinner, once after dinner and twice before bedtime. If your spouse no longer reacts to those critical spats that once held a significant value to them or is no longer the initiator of spats and arguments with you like they use to, then that is a definite sign that the marriage could be coming to an end. Before this painful moment of truth that your spouse is leaving you, there were probably signs of your spouse's departure beforehand. Drive your spouse senseless with your tactics and they'll love you for it. If your spouse has turned you into a broken record and you are always arguing about the same topic, repeating the same words and phrases over and over again then this is a common problem that all married couples have when they run out of words to express themselves. If your spouse has stopped not communicate with you then then is a sign that your marriage is on the rocks. Ertha Kitts' song "Little Things Mean Lots" can serve as a guide on how to make your marriage work.
WHAT WILL YOU TO DO WHEN YOU ARE AT THE BRINK OF MARRIAGE?
When you read it, it is not good enough, so you tear it up and write a better one. Try using a different approach, the by ways are plentiful. The first 3 reactions are negative and not remedial measures. They are the impulsive reactions of people who do not take time to think and assess their situations.
WHAT ARE COMMON EMOTIONS FELT WHEN THERE IS MARITAL CRISIS?
Then there is hopelessness, the person feels lost and does not know what to do. Each path must be treated differently because want is good for one may not be good for the other. Myth 2. Things will not work out by themselves, you have to take a hand.
HOW DO I SAVE MY MARRIAGE AFTER MY HUSBAND COMMITTED INFIDELITY?
Talk to your friends, support group and others acquaintances that might be knowledgeable about the affair. It is better to have a third party as your spiritual adviser such an reliable friend who can act as a referee.
WHAT ARE SOME HELPFUL GUIDELINES FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE?
Look for resources which can help you. The high paying job, the beautiful house and vacation to Paris may never come true. It does not matter who is right or wrong when you argue. Be the first to initiate reconciliation and be sure to resolve your conflict before you both fall asleep. When the spouse leaves his home, it does not mean that marriage is over, it simply means that you have to work harder at it to get back happiness, Do not try to convince your partner that his decision to end the marriage won't work. Emotionally or physically abusing abuse a spouse will bring the day closer to disaster, when he/she will decide that enough is enough. You can save your marriage and save yourself from heartaches by making the changes that you both need.
HOW CAN YOU PRESERVE YOUR MARRIAGE?
Make your spouse your number 1 priority over your kids and work. You can also show him what a good cook you are and how lucky he is to have you as his partner. Things will not work out by themselves, you have to take a hand. Time heals is true in most circumstances but not for a marital crisis. Don't use the children as an excuse to avoid each other. You can't save your marriage if your spouse does not cooperate. Write each other love notes, reminders that you are in love, reconnect by emphasizing your spouse best qualities and remember these are the qualities which made you fall in love with him.
CAN MARRIAGE BE SAVED?
Yes, marriage can be saved but it is not easy as kissing the bride. It is a herculean task requiring both spouses to participate. The answer is positive.
if there is hope, there is a way
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